girls????????????? OOOOOO....ur born to be tortured............!!

Came across the indibloogger  Sets You On Fire!" contest describing  an unforgettable event in your life...




 KFC being one of my favorite place to hangout with my buddies.....The tittle itself attracted me to write a post for this contest( yep ,, obviously the gift coupons attracted me more...!!!)

PS: The above picture has no relation to my story... I loved the pic.and posted it here!!!!!!

This is the first incident that came to my mind when I read the topic...
It happened very unexpectedly
on a normal day.... 

I had the worst experience in my life then....

I have written posts on woman being tortured...eve teased

I have spoke about measures to stop exploitation against woman...

But today i realised that speaking about it hardly contributes towards the end of these practise...

I realized that truth is far different than spoken words...

For the first time in my life,,, I was sorry for being born a girl

I experienced helplessness...

The story starts here...

As usual we were on our way back home from college.........

As usual we friends were together...discussing about everything under the sun..

Immersed in our own world..

Suddenly one of our friends screamed loudly..

All that  we could here were lots of abuses...she could not control herself..and kept on using those harsh words...

She was almost crying...

her voice seemed so painful...

We were left unspoken,,,unaware of what was happening around us......

however she managed to gather some words.her voice still so shrill....she tried to explain the situation...

all that she could do was to point a gang of boys who were pacing across the street....

that was enough for a girl like me to understand...

They had played mischief....

but this time it was against the limit,,,,,

no girl would forgive any guy if he touches her without her permission...and that tooo... if the touch is painful.....if it hurts herrrrr....

whatever the guy did to her.....was just intolerable
She had seen them approaching her......
Once he reached near her...he placed his hands on her chest...it hurt her,,,,,,
though all this happened within seconds...she had to suffer the pain for a long time...any women reading this must have now made wierd faces,,since we understand the situation...

All I can say is....... It was the worst thing that could happen to any girl........

She may quietly suffer the physical pain......but if it hurts her personally.......... if it hurts her mindset..

and then...

It turns worst when the victim denies his act...

One of our male friends rushed behind them...

He asked them politely whereas they deserved none........

they denied..

they were drunk...

They bet him ruthlessly........

and I could do nothing....in fact we girls could do nothing

we were just spectators............

I wished if  I was born a boy....

I could have helped my fellow friend...

and yes...everyday lots of policemen patrol in the area.....

unfortunately there were none on that dayy....

We were so helpless...and the culprits passes away freely...

They had no shame on their face...

So is our society safe for women???

Answering this question is as difficult as turning this society safe for women....

Hope every fathers..every brothers........and every sons..........understand their responsibility to every women............no matter how they are related to them..........

next time when you feel like torturing a girl.......think about your sister being tortured by a devil like you........

think about your mother being eve teased

these thoughts are more than enough to stop the misdeeds....

only if these thoughts are interpreted correctly.........and realisation matters.........

dedicated to to all those girls who had to face the dark clutches of the demon,,,'RAPE'.

no matter what you name it,,, molestation, harassment etc etc. the pain remains the same...for her unknown mistake she is the one disapproved by the society while the demons roam around freely

to all those girls who remain helpless when her prestige an decency gets misinterpreted . Thanks to the eve teasing champions!!!

Name at least one parent who is not worried to allow their daughters move outdoors after 10 in the night, no matter whether it is a city or a village.

I believe that there is no woman in this world who has escaped this disaster.It remains as an unwanted piece of harsh experience in her life.......

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STILL WAITING

The Sun was about to rise,
when tears rolled from my eyes,
I almost cried
When I saw you drenched in blood .

The doctor smiled,
" here's your little princess, just born"
Though you stopped crying at my touch
your eyes , completely wet.


It was about to rain,
you walked your first step,
holding my thumb, along the lane
along the road ,street and the park.


It was almost quarter to noon,
when you whispered, "mom"...
For how could I thank you ,
wish then I was the luckiest mom!

You grew up so fast,
I didn't realize the time passed
I stood by you, at your every wish,
every defeat and every hope.

The sun was about to set when you graduated,
far away from home,
missed you ,, wish you did the same

It was a dark night
when wolves howled,
worried," for what now?"
Tele- news flashed,
'TERROR ATTACKS'
'people managing to escape some how'

I still remember those words,
" Mom, I 'm trapped'
they are mad,,,,they are many,,,,,
Is there help any??

couldn't hear anything else then,
thanks to busy networks and poor battery cellphones,
for your mom's still waiting...........
my princess,,where's you??
It's already two years due..........